Jammin' Jacuzzi

It’s a Monday again. Finally made it to the afternoon…but the day aint over yet. There’s still so much more to go… I love that song by Kassette “I don’t like Mondays”. It’s such a beautiful song, and it mirrors how my exact feelings when it comes to Monday mornings. But we all manage to get through and survive (well we have to don’t we…). The last thing you need is a whole load of seriousness to start off the week.

Well at least the Sharks whipped the Lions this Saturday. So we can look forward to a Sharks v Bulls match in Durban this weekend… I’ll be holding thumbs for the Sharks… And talking about the rugby, I guess there are those guys who do enjoy watching a game of sport with their girlfriends’ (I just wonder how many…). But I would just like to give a big up to Anonymous who seems to be one of those guys, I do wonder though-how would he feel AFTER he has been out to watch a game with his girlfriend...

I guess all people are different, so I won't make generalisations. But, it is always interesting to hear different views... Would you behave differently when watching 'the game' with your girlfriend than when you watch it with the guys? How would you treat her in that different situation? How would you treat others in that situation with your girlfriend there? Maybe I'm just being daft, but I can't help wondering...

I'd like to think that if the two of you are comfortable with each other and as a couple then everything should be cool, but somehow I just find that hard to imagine. So I'd definitely like to know what others think...

Peace out

Hey peeps. I've just been thinking about what one of my friends said to me at the beginning of this year, it really quite bugged me. I had forgotten about it(something you should know, I have a great memory-lol) anyhoo, it sort of popped into my head out of nowhere and thought I'd share it (they do say sharing is caring).

So this is the law according to my friend(who shall remain nameless), if you don't find a boyfriend in university then your chances of getting a man later on in life are pretty much-zero! Now to a lot of girls that is a scary thought (take note I don't say all-I said a lot, so don't be getting ready to jump on me). a lot of girls spend quite a lot of time trying to find the right guy, or trying to 'hook' the guy they think is 'Mr Right', or pretty much obsessing about guys. Girls tend to feel that they need to be in a relationship to be happy or to feel complete...

Now this is what i fail to understand. Why should you feel the need to be in a relationship (why should you even want one?)- and I am not saying this because I am in a relationship!To be honest, I'm quite happy with my relationship currently (save for the whole long distance thing) but hey I was happy before I had a man and I shall be happy after (if I decide to ditch him later)lol. The point I'm trying to make is, why the hell do girls waste so much of their time on guys.

I clearly am lost to this world so maybe someone could explain it to me...But I think that we no longer live in the dark ages where women had to get married and had no status of her own. We are now liberated women! So be happy with yourselves and don't allow your lives to revolve around men. The only person who can make you happy is yourself. If you aren't happy there's no way you ever going to find a guy who can...

lol i feel like someone should say “preach it sister” right now...But seriously sisters you don't need a man in your life for you life to be fulfilled. And I'm going to have a total girly moment here, but some day you will find the man of your dreams, just don't spend all your time looking for him... And to all you brothers out there, I know you all aren't bad-there are some real sweethearts out there. But for you players, don't be a dog, girls aren't there for you to use and abuse. I believe you only play them if they playing you...

Peace out